The last time I had sex I was blowing this guy and when I came up for air, to kiss him, he said, “Jesus, you are so good.” What are you supposed to do when someone compliments you during sex? It didn’t seem right to say, “Thank you, I have worked long and hard for these skills” so I just sort of smiled and kept going because I don’t think he wanted me to stop.
I love sucking dick. I love the feeling of a dick at the back of my throat and I love opening his pants for the first time, not sure what’s going to pop out. I love it when he kicks all the way back, manspreads, and I get to be on my knees worshiping his cock. I want him to caress my hair, stroke my face, toy with my ears and maybe gently guide me along. The best, though, is when I glance up at him and see that he is in such a state of ecstasy — eyes rolled back into his head, mouth slightly open. Look at what I can do to you.
Everyone who sucks penises thinks they’re good at sucking penises. I have never heard anyone, gay or straight, say “I am such a terrible cocksucker.” Have you? We might read articles online with useful tips or suggestions about how to give better dome, but nobody ever prefaces oral sex with, “I’ll do it but I’m not very good” because that would kill the boner.
The secret to sucking excellent penis is not about cupping your hands or licking the head in a swirling motion or putting a mint in your mouth or eating an ice cube beforehand. That stuff’s for amateurs. You just have to be dedicated. You have to really, really want to suck that dick. Lose yourself in the dick. This doesn’t mean you need to eat the thing but you do have to be completely fascinated by it, the way it looks, the way it feels in your throat. You have to show that you can’t get enough.
I have heard too many people say that sucking dick is degrading, that worshipping a dick or being on your knees in front of your man is dehumanizing. Dick sucking is power. You have the power to bring him to an orgasm, which he could do without you, sure, but he can’t suck himself the way you can suck him. He needs you for that. He will remember how good you are and every time you have sex he’ll be so eager to have you do his favorite thing. When you’re out at dinner he’ll look at you from across the table and will remember and when he flashes you a smile this is what he’s thinking.
I suck dick because I want to. I really want to. So should you. But remember: it is not a race. 
